Gaining

Husband wants me to gain

Nomoreskinnygirl wrote:
My husband used to tell me I was too skinny. Now he tells me I'm hot. If you want to do it, go for it. Guys know what they like.




This This This!!!

A long time ago I used to tell my girlfriend at the time....why do you need to go to the gym so much? You could stand to gain a few Lbs. not lose!

Then I told her to try and gain 10 lbs.....then 10 more

later when she was my wife and she gained a lot of weight with pregnancies and was around 200 Lbs. I told her and thought she looked more beautiful than ever.
After losing around 20 Lbs. of the baby weight she ended up gaining a lot more weight and was fatter than ever.....and she was more beautiful than ever to me.

At this time she probably didn't believe that I thought she was so beautiful even though I truthfully did and showed and told her all the time. I would have thought she was even more beautiful the heavier she got......so yes if your man hints around or even tells you to gain some weight....usually it is a heck of a lot more weight than you would even think!!!
10 years

Husband wants me to gain

ahr47 wrote:
I think you should just discuss your feeling and concerns with your husband. This sounds like something you both really want so there shouldn't be that much standing in your way. An open and honest talk should solve all the problems.

Good luck!


^^^^^^^ what Ahr said!

And for that matter, if you both want this, why not have some fun with it? He could be providing more desserts, or maybe go shopping for some larger clothes he'd like you to fill. By getting him to participate then I think you can both relax about it more as well as enjoy it more.
9 years